Like a Complete Unknown
The searches for self-actualization and significance are so powerful and primal they seduce. Though some to greater and some lesser degree, individuals covet recognition. This is not entirely evil, but it seldom ends in virtue. There is a scramble to be the best, achieve the most and be known and admired for the accomplishment. The striving is not problematic. It is admirable to do your best. Rather, the motives behind the machinations are the questions and conflicts. The devil is in the details. These aspects of achievement are glaringly absent in most success stories.
At what price fame? For many people, the road to renown has led through ruin. Success has come at such a cost that it can hardly be recognized as such. For some, the dizzying heights of acclaim come at significant compromise making the wearer unfamiliar to themselves. Perhaps, most people will not taste the bitter dregs of misspent lives, but that does not mean they will make good choices after reading their own press clippings. Perhaps, the goal is only to be mentioned in a forum. I don’t care what they say about me as long as they spell my name correctly. Even those who abhor these ideas jockey for the spotlight.
If we understand human nature, we understand that it is human to have such a nature. Realizing the need for affirmation should make us understand we must give it. If we give to others, perhaps they will return the favor. Everyone needs a cheerleader once in awhile, but many live entire lives and never hear the roar of a crowd. I believe when we give people what they need we are fulfilling God’s design. The desires to succeed and be accepted are inborn, and our Lord has instructed us to be concerned about one another’s well-being.
It may be that the real problems only begin when we lose the common touch. So many things in life are palatable in moderation but deadly otherwise. Recognizing and affirming others is important. It helps them and us keep balance. We’re more level-headed when we feel appreciated since the drive for success can be rooted in insecurity. We might be surprised if we knew how and what our idols think of themselves. If we will, we can help one another, and, when we help others, we are helping ourselves. Recognizing the bonds of humanity, however, does not answer all questions for the driven soul.
It is an undeniable, historical and biblical fact that noteworthy people are not always noted. Furthermore, the worthy do not always win. Those who have the best word do not always have the last word. These may be the reasons Scripture emphasizes effort over accomplishment. It is true that achievement often follows effort, but it’s not a dead-lock. So, there must be joy in the journey if the gallery sits stock-still. We could all do with a little more success, but all things are not under our control. We all have natural and imposed limitations. Eternity will level the playing field.
Paul said those who follow Christ do everything unto Him and are actually His servants no matter the hats they wear in life. As such, none of their good deeds are unrecorded or forgotten. He also said we are known though we may be regarded as unknown. “Where credit is due” will be a greater issue in eternity than at current. In that day, we will all fully understand how important it was for us to have lost ourselves in a cause greater than ourselves during our lives. It’s nice to have applause here, and our herculean deeds (perhaps) should be lauded. For some, this will happen. Since pay a price we must, let’s pay it forward.
Sterl
